No, you don’t have to write every day, but…

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There’s a rumor out there that the only way to be a successful writer is to write every single day no matter what. I hear this way more from men than I do from women, which tempts me to push this nonsense off to a gender issue. Tempting, but I don’t want to go there more than I do already.

A truth is when I first started writing I did write every day. In fact, after I got my kids off to…